Okey-Dokey, you want good love and you want it from a good guy. Right? You deserve it! Grab a pen and paper and take notes, I’m going to 
share with you 5 tips to put you exactly where you want to be with getting the right love and affection from the guy who deserves you!
A little homework never hurt anyone- I know you have quality friends and associates within your social and professional circle. Why not leverage them? Typically someone knows a friend who has a friend that can introduce you to someone they feel may be a nice match for you. Once you’re connected and there’s some attraction there, do a little homework and find out what his interests are i.e., music, movies, food, general opinions about things (nothing too serious). This is great “innocent” information you can use to spark conversations for future dates and phone calls. In addition, don’t just sit back and gather information, be sure to share equally, otherwise he’ll sense you’re being guarded and may refrain himself from sharing. If you don’t know if you have anything in common, it’s impossible to determine if he can give you the love you want.
Be yourself and be original- Regardless of what you may have been told before, men appreciate a woman who has a nice style, confidence and presence about her. But, not overly confident to the point it seems like she’s covering up her insecurities. You should be confident enough to command his attention and pleasantly turn heads when you enter a room. Subtle confidence is incredibly attractive. Men love this!
Let him love you- I know in the new millennia it’s important for women to live free and be independent. Trust me- most decent men will appreciate this about you. However, bear in mind he’s still a man and most men truly like to feel needed and valued. So, let him be a man to you. Allow him to comfort you, open doors for you, treat you to romantic dinners and getaways. Be open to his attention. It’s just as important to a man to give attention to a woman that he’s into as it is for her to receive it. Believe me on this one; if you’ve followed the previous pointers and followed your instincts as well, you’re not putting yourself in a vulnerable situation.
Be real and keep it real- What do I mean by this? I mean be authentic. Be true to yourself and be forthcoming to him about your past, your present and what you want in the future. It makes the dating and relationship experience less strenuous once everything is out in the open. This enables both of you the time and effort to focus on each other. However, there’s some timing that needs to be considered here as well. In other words, this may not be an appropriate conversation within the first 5 dates. Remember, everything is should be in moderation.
Talk to him- If you’re willing to open up your heart to him you should be prepared to open your mouth too. Don’t make the mistake of expecting him to figure it out or read your mind when it comes to your feelings, thoughts or concerns. Guys aren’t necessarily that smart. When something is on your mind concerning the relationship in any capacity, be sure to talk with him about it. At this point, because you’ve followed the previous pointers you should know if he’s good with communication or not, therefore, the proverbial door of “open communication” is always open to enhance your relationship. Remember healthy communication is essential before any of this advice to be effective and lead you to good love with a good man.
Keep Love Simple!
Shelby
